| Why Do I Keep Looking for Validation from Everyone Else? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
There's nothing wrong with wanting to do a good job — to be a good spouse, a good worker, a good friend. But somewhere along the way, the likes and the affirmations start carrying more weight than they should, and other people's opinions grow louder than God's voice....
Why Am I Always Afraid of Making the Wrong Decision? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
Sometimes we don't make poor decisions because we're careless — we make them because we're afraid. Fear of failure turns us into perfectionists. Fear of disappointing others makes us overextend. And the fear of missing God's will can leave us frozen, wondering if...
Why Do I Feel So Spiritually Drained? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
You go to sleep and still wake up exhausted. You check off every responsibility, and your soul still feels empty. You take in information all day long, yet somehow you're spiritually undernourished. Modern life teaches us to keep going, but it rarely teaches us how to...
How God Uses Peace, Scripture, and Prayer to Guide Your Decisions | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
Have you ever stood at a crossroads, wanting to move but unsure whether to stop or go? We often wait for God to answer dramatically — some unmistakable sign — while overlooking the ways He's already been guiding us all along. In this week's devotional, Valarie opens...
What If God’s Peace Is the Answer I’ve Been Looking For? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
Walking in Spiritual Discernment Have you ever been so emotionally tapped out — so close to flatlining — that you felt like, God, if You don't come, I'm just not going to make it? We often expect God's guidance to arrive dramatically, but many times His answer comes...
Am I Praying for God’s Will or Asking Him to Bless My Plans? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
Have you ever come to prayer with your mind already made up — not really seeking God's direction, but hoping He'll approve what you've already decided? It's a subtle shift, and most of us have made it without even realizing. In today's prayer, Valarie draws us into 1...
Why Do I Keep Ignoring the Peace God Gives Me? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
Has God ever given you peace about something — and then you talked yourself right out of it? We overanalyze, second-guess, and rehearse worst-case scenarios until the peace He gave us has been handed over to anxiety. In today's prayer, Valarie explores why we trust...
Why Does Everyone Else Seem So Certain While I Feel Stuck? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
It's easy to believe everyone else has life figured out — the perfect hair, the perfect answers, the confident decisions — while you're the one still feeling stuck. And before long, we start comparing our uncertainty to someone else's confidence and doubting...
What If I’m Waiting for a Sign but God Is Waiting for My Trust? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
Have you been waiting on a flashing sign — detailed instructions and guarantees — before taking the first step? But what if God has already shown you enough for today? In today's prayer, Valarie speaks to those of us who delay obedience while waiting for certainty....
Why Do I Keep Looking for Answers Everywhere Except God’s Word? | Walking in Spiritual Discernment
We live in a world overflowing with advice — we search the internet, watch videos, ask friends, and read countless opinions. And yet sometimes the last place we look is the only place that never changes: God's Word. In today's prayer, Valarie gets to the heart of why...
